Old Fashioned Way to Say Deal Breaker

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• #1

If my partner asked me to open up the relationship, it would be a deal-breaker to me personally.

• #two

Yeah I judge an open up relationship request would probably be a no-relationship response from me. I hateful I presume, who knows what could happen down the line, but to me that just kinda kills the intimacy/sense of having a home. I'd rather just movement on and look for something that satisfied both people properly. Never been asked, though. I've been with people who had done information technology in the past, merely those never lasted for reasons both unrelated and probably underlying related.

Apart from that, I don't really know. I've just had two big long relationships and they've told me some things I don't like. I'1000 certain there are plenty more than human relationship killing factors I haven't even imagined!

• #iii

open relationship,
imposing religious view or trying to convert me,
alcoholism, drug addiction,
massive credit card debt (my ex had CC issues, I had to bail her out),
already has kids,
criminal tape,
uninlingual,
flat earther or conspiracy theorist nut, reptilian

• #four

If they're completely dependant on their family unit.

See, I'm okay if yous're someone who ever checks upwards on your parents and whatnot, only if y'all take decisions by virtually asking their permission when y'all're about thirty years old, then I estimate nosotros'll never brand a decision together, since your parents will requite the go ahead and not us.

Promise I'thousand clear most this, it'southward one of the reasons my terminal human relationship failed and it stung because she was pretty cool, but I definitely didn't desire that.

• #five

If they're completely dependant on their family.

Run into, I'1000 okay if you're someone who ever checks up on your parents and whatnot, only if y'all take decisions by most asking their permission when y'all're nigh xxx years old, then I guess we'll never brand a conclusion together, since your parents will give the go alee and not u.s..

Promise I'm articulate about this, it's one of the reasons my last relationship failed and it stung because she was pretty absurd, but I definitely didn't want that.

Yep this has washed my head in earlier. Constant discussion of their parents opinions on things. At a certain point I just go frustrated and don't want to hear anything about it at all.

• #half-dozen

Yeah this has washed my head in before. Constant discussion of their parents opinions on things. At a certain betoken I merely get frustrated and don't want to hear anything about it at all.

family >>>>>> friends

• #7

Not being a animal, vegetable or mineral.

I'grand at that bespeak of wanting to date anyone.

• #viii

equally in you'd rather hear about family than about friends you don't know/aren't interested in?

• #ix

If they are mean. I want my partner to be squeamish.

Luckily, my electric current And then is a very nice person.

• #ten

The typical responses were put out. So I'm gonna go with someone that tries to end me from doing the hobbies I dear. Video games, music, sports, etc. Those are a role of who I am. It would be a deal breaker to try to modify me at the core.

• #11

Someone who tries to dissever me from my friends. Someone who isn't healthy/active. That's about it.

• #12

I sympathise that there is a lot of stock in family. Merely when a partner is constantly living their life for their family unit, and non even for themselves, allow lone you, it makes you feel like you are simply a puzzle piece in your partners life rather than a major office.

This would get peculiarly frustrating if your partner would inquire your opinion but either ask their parents before you, or default to their parents option each and every fourth dimension, even after consulting with yous.

• #13

Open up relationship
Hygiene downwards below is bad
Fettle i.due east. gaining excessive weight
Kids
Promiscuous past
Not career motivated
Excessive torso mods (no butthole size ear plugs or tats)
Drug use

• #14

I understand that in that location is a lot of stock in family. Merely when a partner is constantly living their life for their family, and not even for themselves, permit lonely you, it makes y'all experience like you are just a puzzle piece in your partners life rather than a major part.

This would get especially frustrating if your partner would ask your opinion but either ask their parents before you, or default to their parents selection each and every time, even after consulting with you.

For me it's more a self-respect thing. Equally in, I've been with someone who would constantly make decisions based on their parents' wishes despite the fact it consistently made them unhappy and was actually abomination to their whole personality and what they wanted out of life. That kind of thing when it's like first it's listen, then it's gently prod possibly practise what you want? and so it's 'come on this is making y'all unhappy' then information technology'southward 'for fuck sake you know you'll hate that' and so it's 'okay yous're just going to exercise it anyhow so i can't be bothered dealing with this for the 50th time'. That kind of thing.

• #15

If she is non willing to argue with me most mundane stuff a few times a week

Nah simply:

Racist
Treats animals and children badly

Last edited: Nov 22, 2017

• #sixteen

Pretty much my only deal breakers are narcissism and an unwillingness to discuss problems

• #xviii

open human relationship,
imposing religious view or trying to convert me,
alcoholism, drug addiction,
massive credit card debt (my ex had CC problems, I had to bond her out),
already has kids,
criminal record,
uninlingual,
flat earther or conspiracy theorist nut, reptilian

This sums it up all perfectly. Also non willing to talk about bug that tin terminate upwardly growing into something worst at a later engagement.

October 25, 2017

34,670

Boise

• #19

Open relationship
Hygiene down below is bad
Fitness i.eastward. gaining excessive weight
Kids
Promiscuous past
Not career motivated
Excessive body mods (no butthole size ear plugs or tats)
Drug use

Pretty much these.

• #20

I'1000 glad you accept that kind of relationship with your family unit.

I don't.

• #21

aside from obvious stuff similar racism and homophobia my only other real deal breaker is smoking. Lost some actually close family members to it cause of cancer and it was a painful experience. Don't even desire the chance to go through something similar that again.

• #22

hard drugs
fundamentalism
open relationship
dishonesty

• #23

Puts ketchup on hot dogs.

Oct 27, 2017

22,189

Derry

• #24

Hard drugs
Tendency to crook
Dishonest
Kids
Massive debt
Sens fan

That said, I've never been in a relationship and have ever been envious of friends who are.

• #26

Puts ketchup on hot dogs.

is there any other way to swallow it without ketchup? That's similar pizza without cheese

• #27

Non wanting to button themselves and grow with me.

Not being driven / having passion

Someone who doesn't go along with my sisters.

Not putting in endeavor.

• #28

Open relationship
Hygiene down beneath is bad
Fitness i.e. gaining excessive weight
Kids
Promiscuous past
Not career motivated
Excessive body mods (no butthole size ear plugs or tats)
Drug utilize

What's the trouble with a promiscuous by? Whats the difference of her fucking one guy before meeting you or a hundred?

• #30

Religious nuttery
Racism or homophobia
Cigarettes
Opioid abuse

• #33

open relationship,
imposing religious view or trying to convert me,
alcoholism, drug addiction,
massive credit card debt (my ex had CC bug, I had to bail her out),
already has kids,
criminal record,
uninlingual,
apartment earther or conspiracy theorist nut, reptilian

how mutual is it that french canadians speak english? youre a frenchie right? or are you an anglophone in quebec

• #34

Most of the typical replies are here but I get suuuuper turned off at meanness or cruelty.

Short chestnut: I was seeing this girl in loftier school and nosotros went to study at her place one afternoon. Matter is her petty sister was at that place and was bugging her, y'know, bones sibling shit. Then she asked me if I wanted to see her comic stuff because that was during the rise of the Marvel movies and she got really into superheroes then. The girl ends upwards telling her that no 1 wants to see her geeky comic collection and terminate bugging united states of america. Her face up sank then quick. I concluded upwards seeing her stuff to brand her feel better. Instant turn off that her older sister was unecessarily mean.

• #35

Having kids, having a penis, being an creature abuser and being a serious pothead.
I accept zilch against smoking marijuana but I'm only not a fan of hanging around stoners for too long.

Farsi

User banned at own request

• #36

Nagging and bad hygiene. Those are the two big ones for me.

• #37

Overly negative
Kids (I don't desire them, namely)
Smokes

• #38

Being a Republican is basically a dealbreaker for being in my personal circumvolve in any form.

• #39

how common is information technology that french canadians speak english? youre a frenchie right? or are you an anglophone in quebec

Neither, i'k an Allophone (who'se mother toungue is neither French nor English). I learned both while growing up, school, Goggle box, playing with other kids.

In this city of Montreal, knowing both French and English is the norm. Beingness unilingual in this metropolis is a handicap.

• #40

how common is it that french canadians speak english? youre a frenchie correct? or are you an anglophone in quebec

We're french here in Quebec simply people speaking english is very common.

Also what gutter_trash merely said, especially the handicap role.

• #41

Mean (including to animals)
Messy
Racism and homophobia
Excessive booze/tobacco/other drug employ
Bad hygiene
Nagging
Fundamentalism and conspiracy mindedness (religious or otherwise)
Debt

• #42

Bad hygiene and dislike of animals.

• #43

What's the problem with a promiscuous by? Whats the divergence of her fucking one guy before meeting you or a hundred?

Self control.

I'm a guy, I have to Work to get pussy..and fifty-fifty I have the self control not to stick my dick in every girl that allows me too.

And Ive dated quite a few women who accept had lots of lovers. Like it or not I'm non one to savour meeting or being in a room full of dudes who accept been within my GF.

• #44

Bad or no sexual practice has got to go.

• #45

Lack of shared interests
If they had kids
mean/obese/dim
Not independent

Bad or no sex has got to go.

And bad sex

• #46

Racism
Detest against LGBT groups
Forcing religion on to our future kids.
Trying to mold me into their ideal partner.
Classism

• #48

I understand that in that location is a lot of stock in family. But when a partner is constantly living their life for their family, and not fifty-fifty for themselves, let alone you, it makes you feel similar you are but a puzzle slice in your partners life rather than a major office.

This would become especially frustrating if your partner would enquire your stance merely either enquire their parents before y'all, or default to their parents option each and every time, even after consulting with y'all.

I mean if they have a skillful relationship with their parents they'll always be in that location for them. Their Southward/O probably won't.

• #49

Existence a Republican is basically a dealbreaker for existence in my personal circumvolve in whatever class.

Damn, I started dating a Republican woman for the outset time in my life 2 years ago and its been the all-time relationship yet lol

I sold out and got me a Fox Anchor blazon lol

• #50

Whatever form of religious belief, it would cause too many arguments

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